THE IMPORTANCE OF GRANDPARENTS IN THE FAMILY - NAJIB EL ADDIOUI

Dear friends, 

Last Sunday, we discussed the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren. Today, we continue with our discussion where will focus further on the importance of grandparents in the family.

Grandfathers and grandmothers have a fundamental role in the family in particular; the lives of their grandchildren. They are an important source of happiness for their children and grandchildren, by being around them, listening to their news, stories and giving advice. 

In many cases,  grandparents are responsible for the caring of their grandchildren, due to parents being at work. This highlights the diplomatic role grandparents have in the family and act as a mediator in raising children. They give unconditional love to their grandchildren, providing emotional support to children (young and the old) as well as affection and satisfaction. Besides, just like how parents motivate their children and put an emphasis on education, health and well-being, hobbies, responsibility and job -- Grandparents also do the same. This shows how grandparents are a bridge between the parents and children and their importance in the family.

Grandparents also help make an effort in developing the children's behaviour besides their parents to take into account of their actions and not make the same mistakes and improve their behaviour. 

Grandchildren bring back the meaning of life to their grandparents where they conduct activities and children keep their grandparents in touch with changes that occur around the world and in their society. This shows a major role in development.

Respecting the elderly is also a duty of care from a religious perspective to ensure their comfort, attention and needs are met and giving grandparents happiness. This holds great significance in many religions and beliefs between grandparents and their grandchildren, between family members and even friends to maintain strong relationships and improve social interactions.

In conclusion, the importance of grandparents in the family is a blessing and should be kept up. Next week, we will discuss the relationship between one of our role models: Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and his grandfather Abdulmuttalib (may Allah have mercy upon him).